Bar owners in their 70s aren’t that uncommon in Tokyo. Men and women who’ve been doing the job for so long it’s simply a habit; a habit that in many ways keeps them young — or at the very least young at heart. Entering a bar and finding out the owner is 93, on the other hand, is decidedly less common. And yet to look at her, and see her confidently cook food and serve beers, you’d never know it.
Running the place for over 60 years, she still opens every night. If there are customers she happily stays open. But if there aren’t, she closes. No stress either way. On evenings when there are customers, however, she’s not averse to a natter, and with us at least she talked about the changes she’s seen during her lifetime — all of which has been spent living in Tokyo’s western extremities. This mountainous area of the city experienced the development of a post-war dam that changed the region enormously, creating both upheaval and employment. On a personal level her family experienced some of this upheaval firsthand, as they were displaced by the dam’s planned location; her childhood home being one of nearly a thousand that had to make way for the project.
But the huge amount of work that construction of the dam provided has obviously long gone, and the presumably substantial number of visitors that once came to see it have understandably dwindled too. Then factor in generations of youngsters wanting to leave and set up home in far more populated parts of the city, and it’s easy to see how much quieter the town must be. Not to mention how much it has changed — especially so for someone who has lived there for so long.
Yet despite her family also moving away, she’s happy to stay put. Happy to run her little bar too — no matter how quiet it may be sometimes. A place where she’s very much at home, and where she’s still quick to smile, have a joke and sip on her beloved sake.
Martin says
That’s just cool!
Lee says
Yes, it really is. It was a lovely experience just being there, drinking and having a chat.
Linda says
I wish I could be an old Japanese lady when I get old. They really seem to know how to do it right.
Lee says
They do. The fact she is still working definitely begs the question, why? But I got the distinct impression she is in no way doing it ‘cos she has to, it’s simply that she wants to.
Wendy says
Oh, the stories we could hear from her!
And the stories we can imagine through your photographs…well done!
Lee says
I know. It was fascinating. The different generations, location etc made for a wonderful chat.
And thank you. If you can do that then I at least partially achieved my aim. That’s very good to hear.
Phil J says
I love these little stories that you write up with your pictures. I came here years ago for you Haikyo and have stayed for everything else. From Idaho – Thanks for the great little glimpses into another place and occasionally time.
p.s. I hope your wife is doing better if there was an update since your post about the hospital I missed it.
Lee says
Thank you. Glad to hear it. Places such as these, and the people who run them, absolutely fascinate me. Something I get a lot out of. But to hear that other people enjoy them too makes them even more enjoyable.
And thanks ever so much for mentioning it. Haven’t written an update. She’s still having chemo. 2 more sessions to go. Needless to say it’s tough, but all things considered she’s doing ok. Then it’s a case of hoping it has all been worth it. But the doctors are happy with how it’s all progressing, so that gives us confidence.
Sophie says
That’s a lovely story of a lovely lady!
Thanks for sharing this.
Lee says
Yes, she really is lovey. We had a great few hours there drinking and eating.
And you are more than welcome. My pleasure to be honest.
d.minnis says
Fascinating Lee, and I strongly suspect that place is what keeps her so young.
Lee says
It was a wonderful find. We very nearly jumped on the train to head more towards home, but a decision to have a proper look round before we did paid off big style.
And yes, I think it does too. Also, having been a part of her life for so long, it’s probably impossible for her to imagine not being there every evening.
carol says
So fascinating. It might be my imagination, but her little area there appears cleaner than many of the places you’ve photographed! Is her layered outfit a generational leftover? I’m comparing her to the spritely 90 year-olds I’ve met.
Lee says
It is. Surprisingly clean considering her age. The meat on the other hand she cooked us looked decidedly dodgy, but thankfully it was ok!
Not sure about the outfit at all I’m afraid. Must have been warm though cos the bar was unusually cold.
Carlos says
Can you give us the exact adress and metro station? I’ve been in Tokyo last year and i would love to come back there and meet this sweet lady.
Lee says
It’s nowhere near any Metro stations I’m afraid. It’s way out in west Tokyo. Nearly 2 hours from Shinjuku. But if you fancy going there when you return, let me know and I’ll sort a map out for you.
Carlos says
Thanks Lee!
What a sad news for me 🙁